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Choosing against overwhelm
Who is creating the pressure on your day-to-day life? How did the overwhelm build up today? I seem to be rushing around at the moment....

Jessica
Jan 152 min read


January, the dreaded month
Now that the partying is over: What's there to like about January? I used to look at this month as a long, dark slog with little to...

Jessica
Jan 61 min read


Another look at that old dream
What old dream do you want to bring back into your life? Ideas and longings easily get sidelined, but it's worth giving them a second look.

Jessica
Dec 17, 20242 min read


A pause in the Christmas rush
You can grab a moment, however brief, for yourself. Breathe.

Jessica
Dec 16, 20241 min read


Where there are humans, there's emotion
What's gained by the pretence that work and emotion don't mix? Not much - ignoring your emotions make it far more likely they'll hijack you.

Jessica
Dec 10, 20241 min read


What side-tracking are you allowing?
Moving towards what you want can feel scary. It's easy to allow side-tracks that don't really serve us.

Jessica
Dec 3, 20241 min read


Getting unstuck from fear & worry
What happens when you stick with fear and worry, even after the danger has passed?

Jessica
Nov 26, 20241 min read


Your body is amazing.
What happens if you choose to appreciate your body today?

Jessica
Nov 24, 20242 min read


Down with shoulds!
I want to establish a should liberation army. What made us invent that hopeless word 'should'? Can anyone give me an example of it doing...

Jessica
Nov 12, 20242 min read


Make a mindful reset in the face of what you can't control
A relevant reflection this week: How do you relate to what you can’t control? It’s easy to get frustrated, disappointed, angry and sad...

Jessica
Nov 6, 20242 min read


How are your mindreading and fortune-telling skills these days?
You might counter that you don’t do that sort of thing. So, when did you last (with utmost certainty) think: “I know what she’s going to...

Jessica
Oct 31, 20241 min read
To lead well, know yourself
Interesting to see McKinsey's overview of critical factors in 21st Century Leadership start out with the need for leaders to "have a...

Jessica
Oct 24, 20241 min read


When do you let your guard down?
It’s worth remembering that on the whole, most people have good intentions. Even where the risk of crime is high, you’re more likely not...

Jessica
Oct 22, 20241 min read


Let go to move forward
When is it time to move on? Move on from the way you thought leaders “should” be, but that you know only creates tension - both in the...

Jessica
Oct 15, 20241 min read


Can you stop making sense?
Not everything we do has a clear and coherent explanation, nor do our actions always stay linear and straightforward. Are you willing to...

Jessica
Oct 10, 20241 min read


Exit the trap of mulling yesterday and tomorrow
“If only I had done this differently yesterday...” “What if it doesn’t work out tomorrow?” In the midst of a long and frustrating to-do...

Jessica
Oct 2, 20242 min read


Changing your perspective
The transforming power of changing your perspective

Jessica
Sep 26, 20241 min read


Emotions - the wellbeing foundation
What’s your view of emotions at work as a focus for leaders? Marc Brackett, PhD, founding director of the Yale Center for Emotional...

Jessica
Sep 22, 20241 min read


Which identity labels don't serve you?
What labels do you put on yourself? Complete this sentence a few times: “I am…”(or “I am not”) - what do you add? Write it down. Some...

Jessica
Sep 18, 20242 min read


Meet the fear and find the treasure
What do you choose to hide your fear behind? So many people would like to make changes in their lives, but something – typically fear –...

Jessica
Sep 13, 20242 min read
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